DITCH THE DATING APPS: DO THIS 1 THING EVERY DAY TO FIND LOVE | Melissa Dishell | TEDxPacific Avenue
In an age dominated by digital dating and algorithm-driven matches, Melissa
Dishell offers a bold alternative: ditch the apps and prioritize real-life connection.After building a thriving career representing celebrities and creatives, Melissa
reached a point of personal clarity: she had prioritized everyone but herself. At
42, she embarked on an intentional journey, committing to doing one thing a
day for love.Whether you're single by choice, circumstance, or tired of ghosting and catfishing, discover how shifting your energy and priorities can lead to real
connection. Her story will inspire you to put love on your to-do list!
Melissa Dishell is a Los Angeles-based creative executive with over 20 years of experience in branding and marketing, renowned for her innovative strategies that bring ideas to life for talent and brands like Dita Von Teese, Christian Louboutin, Barbie and Pharrell Williams. Her dynamic approach to event design and creative production, coupled with her ability to inspire and motivate, has solidified her reputation as a visionary leader in the industry. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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